you know what they say….’hindsight is always 20/20′.
but, what i’d like to know is this: when is it that we really come to the place of hindsight?
i tend to think that it varies.
i’m ruminating on these sort of things because it’s been a year of living in Kansas for our family, and there are some things i see clearer than i did one year ago, but i can’t say that everything is 20/20.
i think i can see a lot of the answers to why we are not where we were, but maybe the answers to why we are here seem blurry still.
i’m truly okay with that.
it’s a funny thing to look back on this past year of Major Change.
in some ways it feels like such a short span of time, and then in others ways, it doesn’t.
(^^a picture i took of my sister and her family)
two things that stand out to me about this past year are lessons of trust and grace.
trust in that there were (and still are) days where the questions are clearer than the answers for a lot of the why’s of our being here…
trust in that we’ve had to tell our children to trust us when this experience has been HARD on them and even as we tell them that we quake within ourselves because we don’t really know what we are asking of them in that…
trust in that i know it is a Great God who knows all of our days and He has ordained them all and in that i can find rest even on the days when i fear the unknowns…
grace in that i have had, and most definitely am still learning how, to give myself grace when everything in me wants to strive for something else…
grace in that i’ve had to learn how to extend that in new ways toward others that relate and are different than i…
grace in that we’ve had to learn how to give that to each other as we have all gone thru this change and have been affected in just as many different ways…
grace in that i have had to accept that from the Lord as i have wondered what my, our place is here and He is, ironically, again, asking for trust.
the two undoubtedly go hand in hand.
i’m not sure if you can have grace without trust, or if trust can take root in a heart without grace…
retrospect is to look back on, contemplation.
our lives are defined by events that change our course.
for the good or the bad.
how the events of my life change me for the good or the bad….again, grace.
and, when i think about it like that, it is so what i want to extend toward others.
because, really, we are all on a life-changing journey every day.
the events may seem small and insignificant, and some are, but they all add up to a life lived.
(^^last summers blood moon.)
moving on to other things about the change of life…
life in Kansas is vastly different than life in Pennsylvania was.
things are much slower here.
there are way less people.
making a living thru agriculture is the norm here.
those three things i absolutely LOVE.
we live on a dirt road that sees so little traffic.
truth be told, i would say that there are more pieces of farm equipment driven past our house than there are vehicles.
our children are learning that you tell directions not by turning left or right, but by going east or west.
on our 7 acres we have more outbuildings than i ever dreamed we could have.
our children literally spend entire days outside in imaginary play.
i now see the need for each of them to own a decent pair of cowboy boots as more practical than a decent pair of sneakers.
instead of planning and caring for a large flower garden as i did in PA, i am now planning and starting a large vegetable garden in our back yard.
i ordered seeds from a catalog for the first time in my life and am so anxious to get them all started.
we built a cold-frame two weeks ago for the purpose of starting vegetables and i’m excited to see how it will also serve me year round here.
we spend our weekends working around our homestead….with all our outbuildings and pasture, there is much that can be done.
one thing that i have realized i’ve let go of since moving onto our homestead is that i take less pictures.
which, i really do not like.
this is most definitely a stage and time in our families life that i want to remember, and i am going to have to purpose to get out my big camera more. it takes time and effort for me because i can always be busy and about something here, but in the midst of that, there are many things i want to document and remember thru my camera.
i MUST do better in that.
our home is a continual work in progress.
we kind of hit the brakes after we moved in here last October.
we recently started scheming and dreaming about how to update the bathrooms.
i’m not even kidding when i say they are tiny and FAR from what would be ideal.
they work, and i’ve had worse.
they leave a lot to be desired.
it all takes time and money, and sometimes you just come up short on both, ya know?!
i’ve recently become
obsessed familiar with Joanna Gaines and her HGTV show Fixer Upper, and her blog Magnolia Homes. watching her show has encouraged me to think outside of the box even more. and, i LOVE her style in her Texas farmhouse. it’s a bit too white on white for me, but the overall style i really find inspiring.
i wish i could pick her brain on our bathroom situations.
but, in the meantime, i guess i’ll keep watching her transform homes and draw inspiration from that.
this week our kids have spring break and it’s so awesome to have a more relaxed way of starting out the mornings.
today the kids are going to have chores to do around here so that we can do some other things the rest of the week.
work first, play later.
i better scoot along.
thanks for stopping by, and skimming thru this random post.
i hope to be back soon.